10 quotes to get you out of bed on your worst days !!

Hi, guys I hope that you are all doing well ? This week I will be counting down my top 10 motivational quotes for those days when you just don’t want to do life.I have personally been going through a rough time (p.s. send a girl some prayers). Some days when I wake up the 1st thing that pops into my mind is

      No Jesus !!! why do I have to wake up ? I don’t want to get up & do life today !!!

As my dear friend, Eniola would say “adulting” is hard.. LOL. Unfortunately, the downside of  “adulting” is even when you don’t want to do life you still have to.

These quotes are sure to get you out of bed even on your worst days.

My personal favourite

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Hi guys

I know it has been way too long…. Let’s just say life got me to the point that  for one second I considered dying. I genuinely thought it would be easier. I would love to say that I am back to writing but that would be a lie. I must first allow time to heal my wounds before I can continue. (But I foresee a comeback in the making)

One of my favourite quotes.. (p.s if you know me, you would know that I have a lot) by the late Dr.Maya Angelou says.

Though we face many defeats we must not be defeated….

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Consistency is… Key

we are what we reaptedly doHi guys…

I wish you could see the big smile on my face as I am writing this at 11:30 PM. I have missed writing so much. It is really good to be back. I have a lot in store for you so watch this space. Now back to this week’s blog…

As my amazing friend, Vanessa always says to me “Onyinye (Igbo name) all you have to do to know what is important to someone is to see how they spend their time. I never fully understood the weight of her words until one day it finally clicked. We all say we would love to have enough time to do this or do that…

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Porn Scars ??

Hi, guys this week. I have something a bit different  for you. I decided to do a video just share what I have learnt recently about the effects porn can have on our minds.P.S I am no expert.I am just sharing what I have learnt. I would love to hear all your opinions on this topic.

I hope you enjoy this video.

All my  Love Lydia

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Can’t stop won’t stop….

quitting is not an option


For me to stop it would mean, that I am ok with where I am.

That is exactly what one of my friends who is currently working as Nurse while writing her exams to get into medical school said to me. When I asked her why in God’s good name she was still taking any more exams. When she said the above phrase to me I laughed hard.

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